The fire behind it all is a dual motion of self recognition. The fight that is going on must come to some resolution. The truth and the will of the self good. How can one take ruins and violence and turn it good? One find the stop button.  Say it, “no, I will not be abused ignored or refused… I sit here and count my blessing by focusing on what I know I have at will. I chose love as the only reality and the only source of light that had created anything at all”.

The force that separated glass from blast had melted the iron mask of gluttony for a direction to nail. Hold your focus on the ability to avert a really bad reality into a good reality. Do not ask how to keep on pushing those muscles of positive future. Reality can shift right now and even though forever is a big promise, one day it will become true.The danger is loosing it at the point of the turn.

It is really not what they say about flying too close to the sun. It does melt, but it melts wax. How else those angels got their wings. Real people do not burn with the sun. Real people surrender to the sun. Fire for fire means that the fire of true love in the world is stronger in the future more then in the now but in reality that fire is simply allowed to become one in the consciousness of the masses.

Nothing is ever created and although humans learned to vanish matter, the vanishing act belong to the allusion of power without mastery over the force of the tree of life.

True love, is the pearls that do not need to wrap a chain of events around ones throat.

You must never blame yourself for what you have failed to achieve but you must be thankful for what you have gained. You never show gratitude to those who have sacrificed their own time and helped you. You tend to talk with authority and violence. Try to be more cautious or else, you may rouse the anger of a person and from that moment, he will behave differently with you. You will indeed regret losing such a nice, modest person and such a priceless treasure. He will not return to you, even if you offer him something valuable. He will certainly refuse to stand by your side. As long as he was supporting you, you continuously abused him, stopped him from living his life and you even prevented him to breathe properly. My advice is that you must show your qualities. Try to be independent. And when you will need the help of someone, be prepared and ready to offer your services in return.

Many people have such a difficult time rising above the acts of abuse committed upon by others, that they don’t seem able to forgive them from heart and soul. Some spent many years healing their emotional pain through physiological means. This forgiveness isn’t even close to being complete; there are too many unanswered questions, so it’s better to keep an emotional arms length distance from others. Additional growth comes through energy healing, past life regression and regaining soul fragments. This reveals that you need to forgive with your heart and not just with your mind. This makes a lot of sense.

Some could feel, yes, this was it! this particular healing is now complete. Unfortunately one could still be baited into re-acting in a negative way when the topic of a particular abuses was brought to the surface. How does one authentically forgive and release the pain of a past event? How does one avoid retaining a sliver of pain and hurt trapped inside, resurfacing when you least expect it? Everybody knows deep down that if they are going to be capable of moving forward they had to explore their inner side.

It does not matter which form you prefer. What matters is that you look to each for the truth which underlies the form and not the form itself. Look for the one truth, the great truth, which all religions, all spiritual forms, espouse.

And that is: all is love. You are love, all is love. All is love and all is one. All is one in being, all is one in connectedness, all is one in love.

The universe is made of love. This is its essential form. And everything in it is one, joined completely in togetherness and being. And all of this, this truth, underlies all of the metaphors and can be found by you beyond these metaphors, ceremonies, altars and rituals, if you will but seek the quiet peace which lies in the silence when you have quieted your mind.

Seek quiet. Look to the deep truth which you hold within your own heart. Worry less about what other people tell you. Worry less about how one organization or group has seen things versus another. Worry less about ritual and form and more about content.

All is love. All is one. And all of this can be completely known in the stillness beneath your thoughts. This is truth.
You are not alone. You are deeply loved, because you are part of the all, you are a precious part of the all which is one, and that all is love. This is truth.

The rest may be interesting, may be fun, may be deeply moving, may help you connect and understand, but this is the truth.

Learn to meditate and reach peace and you will find this truth for yourself. Then when you read and explore and have spiritual adventures, you will know the place to return to, to refresh yourself with the simplicity of the true answer: All is one and all is love.

Taking delight in small Things. Many people belittle themselves for getting immense satisfaction from small things. You hear people say things like: “I know it’s sad but I get such a lot of satisfaction from ..” What that is varies. It can be: a tidy desk drawer, a line of washing, a new magazine, the colour purple,  the downy hair on my child’s arm, chopping onions finely, etc.

The usual implication is that it’s not a good thing to get satisfaction from small things. It shows a slightly shameful side to your character. May be it means your shallow and not ambitious. But think about this again. Isn’t it better to have small things that can give you a sense of happiness and satisfaction, rather than insisting on the big things? Focusing on achieving happiness in small things, doesn’t mean you can’t achieve the big and dramatic things too.

Have lots of different ways you can succeed and feel good about yourself. As well as having small things that make you happy, make sure you have lots of ways you can succeed and feel good about yourself. This is particularly important if you are involved in some long term project, such as losing weight, getting fit or achieving a high ranking within your organisation. It’s easy to set these things as a single goal, but have multiple goals so that you can feel you’re achieving something most of the time. Then you feel good about yourself and want to try even harder. So, for example, if you’re big goal is to get fitter have lots of different takes on it, e.g. going to the gym 3 times this week, achieving a 90% heart rate on at least one exercise session this week, enjoying drinking water.

You probably need about 6 different goals to keep you motivated and involved. Try to achieve them all, but when you don’t, don’t feel down but concentrate on the ones that you are achieving. This is just one aspect of your life, but have goals for lots of different aspects of your life. If you don’t like the word ‘goal’ and find it a turn-off, rephrase it. How about satisfaction points or happiness highs?

Make unhappiness harder to achieve. Many people only need one thing to go wrong in order to be unhappy and need everything to be right in order to be happy. This makes happiness almost unachievable. When things go wrong, remind yourself about all the things that are right in your life. They are still there – focus is what counts. Also think about what having the problem means, too much housework? you could be living in  a small one-room shack or on the street. Queueing at the supermarket? look at your groceries – would you prefer not to have money to buy food? sat in a traffic queue? you have a car.

Sometimes catastrophic events do happen and then unhappiness is where you need to be. But often unhappiness is self-indulgent, representing a belief that everything should be good and easy for us. Remember what Friedrich Nietzsche said: “That which does not kill us makes us stronger. “

There are so many rules and have tos on how to be loving, that are putting people in destructive traps thinking that that is care or communion. How right are we of the beliefs we are holding? And these beliefs might come from society, from culture, from religion, from education, from upbringing, from peers, etc., from the media.

There are various important points one should kepp in mind:

- awareness
We need to become aware of the lies we have bought as love, and see them as lies. They cause people, they cause you to suffer – would God/Source/Consciousness, however concept you have of Him/Her, ever want us to suffer? The answer is absolutely no.  These lies are preventing a positive change on the Planet. These lies also prevent our ascension.

- accountability/responsibility
How much denial or justification do we see of bad behavior, not simply from the people doing the behavior, but from society or culture? Until we become accountable, until we take responsibility for our behavior and we recognize it as such, we will not be able to change.

- blame/guilt
Many people do not want to recognize how they have behaved because unfortunately the world is still functioning from blame, guilt and wrongness. We need to get out to that paradigm, because it is preventing people from changing, it is preventing the Planet from healing, and it is keeping the behavior in place. Yes, the behavior might be wrong, but we need to take away the label of wrong as judgment. It was a choice the person made out of their consciousness, probably out of the teachings they had received in their life.  As they recognize the lies they hold and let them go, they can make a better choice for themselves and for the whole.

- respect
We need to enter in a paradigm of sacred respect for each individual, without exception, on this Planet. Once we recognize the uniqueness and truth of each person, much healing will take place.

And probably the best question we can ask ourselves is: As the Infinite Beings we truly are, what does it mean to Love? And start from there …

It has nothing to do with liking the rain or not liking the rain. Rather, it is letting go of the one that likes or doesn’t like, the one that separates itself from the rain in the first place. And when you do that you are simply left with what is.

There is no you and what is, there is simply what is. And the experience of what is is peace,
is delight. It is completely open and vulnerableand complete in itself.

If you apply this experience of being in the rain to any situation, any emotion, then there will be
incredible freedom. It has nothing to do with the particular experience, rather it is about
letting go of the one that separates itself from experience, letting go of the one that tries to control the experience. Because it is that separation that creates all conflict.

Let us have that light of understanding. Accept things as they are, people as they are. Don’t demand anything. Don’t put conditions, only when you do this does it prove that you love others. Rise above all this. Our attitude, our approach, our love should be unconditional. Simply accept people for what they are, as they are. Learn to love everyone and everyone will love you, no doubt. Then, life is worth living. The world becomes a heaven on earth for you.

When we don’t forgive, we carry a lot of emotional baggage, which blocks our growth. On a sub-conscious level, a lot of our energy is consumed when we carry grudges against someone. This stops us from creating a meaningful life and atmosphere around us. By not forgiving, we simply deny creation, beauty and harmony in our lives. When we don’t forgive, we don’t forget and when we don’t forget, then we are too busy nurturing memories which are not going to do any good to us and our environment. We find it difficult to forgive because we view forgiveness as ‘coping’, but forgiveness is actually a ‘choice.’ When we forgive someone, then we ‘choose’ to do it. We choose to free ourselves from a lot of unpleasantness, which we certainly don’t need at any stage of life.

Generally, people equate forgiving someone with a personal defeat, declaring ‘I lost against somebody who harmed me’ or saying ‘you win’. Sometimes, there is anger too. If we forgive someone, we believe the person will be left scot-free of punishment for her deeds. We end up nurturing negative emotions like resentment, anger and hate, which later manifest as diseases in our bodies.

Forgiving someone is not about saying ‘you are right and I am wrong’, but about saying ‘I am smart and I don’t waste my energy in nurturing a victim mentality’. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that ‘the person who harmed me won’, but about saying that ‘my life is free from unnecessary complications’.

Forgiveness is a charity that always begins from home. When we choose to forgive, then we travel light and allow ourselves to nurture our creativity. Shed Negativity, Be Healed The act of forgiving has a healing effect on our emotional body. When we forgive, we shed a lot of negativity from within. This allows a free flow of prana or chi in our bodies, which helps us maintain body and mind harmony. It allows us to exist in a different vibration, which attracts positive events and environments.

By forgiving, we clear our own path of growth. It’s a favour we do ourselves. We can create growth and balance in our environment if we are free from blockages. When we forgive, we set ourselves free.
If someone has caused you emotional pain, you can forgive her keeping in mind what you have learnt from that pain. Kabbalah teachings suggest that the lessons or messages of life often come in the form of pain and through a messenger. These messages are important for our growth. So, we should keep the message and let the messenger go. We miss the opportunity to grow when we get stuck with the messenger and let the message go. One can meditate keeping this in mind.

This is a mental task with imagination, which has wonderful results, especially if done in an alpha state of mind. For this, one needs to sit comfortably with eyes closed. After a few deep breaths, imagine the person you believe has harmed you in any way. Start talking to this person in your imagination and tell her, “I am willing to receive the message of life which I got through you. I forgive you for being different from what I wanted you to be. I forgive you and set myself free.” Open your eyes when you feel comfortable.

When we carry resentment towards others, we become disconnected with ourselves and are no more in control of our lives. People who carry anger and resentment have sinking chi or prana in their bodies. To balance the chi in the body, it is important to be connected to ourselves. It can be done by being involved with yourself.

Make a list of things you enjoy doing. Spend some time doing these things. Observing silence for some time daily, may be for 10 minutes, helps maintain the balance of chi. It helps in focussing on the messages of life and not on the messengers. Environment: If you find it difficult to forgive, you need to check your environment. Are you surrounded by negative energies? Do you enjoy listening to other people’s tales of sufferings? This sort of atmosphere creates a lot of resistance to growth. It keeps you stuck with unpleasant memories. You can break the resistance by choosing a positive atmosphere. If you choose to forgive, it means you are giving yourself the green signal for a new life that leads to the path of growth.

Love is also the greatest revolution because in love you have to drop your ego, otherwise love remains a dream and never becomes a reality. One has to sacrifice the ego at the altar of love. That’s the only way to bring it down from the beyond into the heart. The ego is like a rock: remove the ego and you become available to love. God is nothing but the most intense experience of love, another name for the orgasmic experience of love. All the Buddhas, all the awakened ones, have been giving this simple message. But it has not been heard yet; man is deaf and blind.

By becoming a sannyasin you are taking a vow against deafness and blindness, that now you will try to be open to reality, vulnerable to existence, available to god.